The other day I was scrolling through my Facebook when I saw someone who’s name I didn’t recognize post how thankful she was to live in a small town because “Where else can you go out to eat and the waitress hold your baby so you can eat with both hands” she continued on saying that she was thankful she lived in a small town because her children would have life long friends. This took me back a little bit because although she may not of met it to sounded like this, she gave the impression that only these things can happen if you live in a small town.
See I have lived in small towns of a few hundred, to big cities as large as 2.5 million. I attended 9 school in 12 years. I have attended churches as small as 5 people and as large as 5,000+. So I think I can speak from experience that it isn’t really about the “small town” or “big city” at all. It isn’t about where you live, but it is all about who you know.
See, in my opinion often small towns are nothing more than like living in a Middle/High School cliques fest. See school is great as long as you are in the right crowd. If you are in the cool crowd then you are accepted by everyone and looked up to in some cases. Everyone in school from middle school up is place in a invisible hierarchy depending on your reputation. If your a jock, that’s great but miss up one time or are seen with the wrong crowd then your social life is pretty much over. I’ve seen people in small towns be so completely isolated because they have made some mistakes in their life. They have been told, businesses aren’t hiring, when that very day the company had posted on Facebook they were. Actions from these wonderful small town people, have totally devastated this persons financial life and if you don’t have any money you are stuck in the town so it just becomes a snowball effect.
So see it wasn’t about living in a small town for this young mother, it was about her hanging out with her friends (which was probably her waitress or the restaurant was so slow the waitress had nothing better to do)
Because kindness isn’t isolated to small towns anymore than safety is.
See we have been to restaurants in big cities where waitresses walked across the street to purchased a Dr. Pepper, for my husband simply because it wasn’t a brand of cola they carried. Why? Not because she was a friend but because she wanted to give good service, not just to us but to all her customers. In fact service was so good, we didn’t even realized she had left until after she returned and told us.
I have also, been to restaurants in small towns, where we couldn’t get the waitress to refill our water glass because she was to busy talking to her “friends” and we were strangers in the community so apparently in her opinion we weren’t worthy enough for her to be bothered with.
I’ve sat in small churches where no one spoke to me and I have attended large churches where I could barely get through the crowd because everyone wanted to stop and talk to me.
See none of these examples are as much about where you live as much as it is who you know.
That really needs to be our opinion as Christ Followers. “It isn’t about where we live but is about who you know.” The bible says when talking about the end of the world that “Heaven and earth will pass away, but my words will never pass away . Matt 24:35
If you have study anything about the end times then you know that everything is in line for the Lord to come back. Never at anytime in history have we been so close as we are today to seeing His return.
The question is, “Do you know Him well enough to get taken up with Him when He comes back to get His bride?”
Matthew goes on to tell us in Chapter 23″ 40 Then two men will be in the field: one will be taken and the other left. 41 Two women will be grinding at the mill: one will be taken and the other left. 42 Watch therefore, for you do not know what hour[f]your Lord is coming.”
I know the bible says no one knows the day or the hour, but we can see that the prophecies have been full-filled and we need to be watching for Him . We need to be ready and while we wait we need to be making sure others are ready to go with us. Romans 3:23 says ” All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” Romans 6:23 NIV “For the wages of sin is death but the gift of God is eternal life” Then Romans 9:9-10 AMP says “9 because if you acknowledge and confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord [recognizing His power, authority, and majesty as God], and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. 10 For with the heart a person believes [in Christ as Savior] resulting in his justification [that is, being made righteous—being freed of the guilt of sin and made acceptable to God]; and with the mouth he acknowledges and confesses [his faith openly], resulting in and confirming [his] salvation. 11 For the Scripture says, “Whoever believes in Him [whoever adheres to, trusts in, and relies on Him] will not be disappointed [in his expectations].”
I like that last verse, ““Whoever believes in Him [whoever adheres to, trusts in, and relies on Him] will not be disappointed [in his expectations].” Did you see that “adheres to, trust in and relies on” part. Anyone can say they believe in God, the devil believes in God. But he isn’t going to heaven. We must “adhere to, trust in and rely on” if we expect to get to heaven.
See if we are really doing that, then it doesn’t matter where we live, because it is really about who we know, and the bottom line is if we know Him, we will live like Him. So, no matter if it is a small town or a large city we will treat others as we want to be treated. We will rise above the High School hierarchy and love others no matter, what their past or present is. Because the truth is if we can’t love each other and get along down here on earth, we aren’t gonna make it up there. (Heaven) Then, it really will matter where you live.